1、家長會上的發言尊敬的各位家長：大家上午好！首先感謝老師給我這次機會，能跟大家一起共同學習交流孩子教育方面的一些問題，我非常珍惜這次機會，同時也感到有些不好意思。因為我認為跟其他始終關注孩子成長的家長比起來我可能做的還不夠，跟其他品學兼優的孩子比起來，我家孩子并不是特別出色，但既然老師信任我，給我這樣一個機會，我就應該責無旁貸。下面我就把自己在教育孩子過程中的一些體會跟大家交流一下，就算拋磚引玉，如果我的話能引起各位家長的共鳴，能對大家有點滴的啟發或感觸，我將會感到非常高興。努力培養孩子的閱讀習慣我曾到一個同學家里去，家里裝修的非常豪華，可我在她家里轉了一圈，除了孩子的學習資料和幾本雜志竟沒發現

2、幾本書，可她還在跟我抱怨孩子不愛看書，只喜歡玩電腦。王奕菲在她很小的時候，每天晚上睡覺前我都會讀書給她聽，慢慢的上學了她會拼音了，我們就讀那種帶拼音的書，她讀一段我讀一段，再后來也不知從什么時候起，她就不再粘著我讀書，能自己捧著書看了。從王奕菲上學以來，我們家就沒再交網費，一直沒上網，有需要查資料時候，我們一ectificationand strengtheningthemanag ementofda ilyeducation,thespiritofreformshort ofthecompletesystem,payclose attentiontosystem implementation

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12、d g uarantee s improvelivelihood,a nd promote social harmonycombine dup,andcompletedthetask combine般要求她利用工具書，實在查不到我們就用手機上網幫她查。今年國慶節我們家開通了無線網絡，可孩子基本也想不起來上網。一到星期五我們也不看電視，孩子寫作業，我和她爸就一人一本書在旁邊看。有時孩子寫完作業、練完琴，我們全家就一人一本書一人霸占一張沙發靜靜的閱讀，互不打擾。至于書的來源，一是從圖書館借，我們家一共辦了三張借書卡，一個卡可以借兩本，由于他父親的單位離圖書館很近，一般借書的任務就交給他，熟人常常看

13、到他一下抱6本書回家，期中2 本是我們看的，4 本是女兒看的，我們給她爸封了一個頭銜就是“運書部長”。 二是從網上或書店買。我個人主張如果經濟條件允許，可以給孩子買一部分書，因為我發現孩子有時沒書看了，就又拿出以前看過的書再看，有時一本書能看好幾遍。這個可以理解，因為孩子的思想在不斷成熟，不同年齡看同一本，感悟也會不一樣的。所以，在給孩子買書的問題上我基本上是有求必應，寒暑假我都從當當網給孩子買成套的書。我覺得與其給孩子買身名牌衣服，吃頓大餐，還不如給孩子多買幾本書。即便孩子現在還不是很喜歡看書，但如果家里有許多適合孩子看的書，當孩子無聊的時候，說不定就會拿起書看，也許不經意間孩子就喜歡上看書

14、了。另外如果孩子還沒養成看書的習慣，大家就從好孩子的興趣開始，如果他喜歡漫畫書，就讓他看，慢慢的她就會看別的書了，如果他喜歡飛機、喜歡汽車，你就找livelihood,a nd promote social harmonycombine dup,andcompletedt hetask combine 6相關的書籍讓他看，反正就是從他的興趣入手，慢慢孩子就能從書里獲取她需要的東西了，不要說看這些干嘛，一點用都沒有，其實這只是一個過程，不是說“開卷有益”嗎，只要他能靜靜的捧著書看就是一種進步，就是一個好的開始。在這里我還想說：家長就是孩子的一面鏡子，如果家長每天在家里就是看電視、上網，怎么能奢望

15、孩子一個人靜靜的看書呢。古語說： “腹有詩書氣自華”、 “書中自有黃金屋、書中自有顏如玉”、 “讀書破萬卷、 下筆如有神”， 多讀書、讀好書，能拓展孩子的知識面，應該說閱讀習慣是人生中最有價值的習慣。請大家一定注意這方面的培養，尤其在小學階段，學習任務還不是很重，如果到了初中高中，都有7、 8 們課，就是想看也沒大有時間了。要享受跟孩子一起成長的過程在座的我們應該都是人到中年了，上有老下有小，而且在單位都是中堅力量，有時忙了一天，回家看到孩子再不是那個樣，心里別提多不舒服了。我曾經也有一段時間覺得自己特別委屈，孩子父親忙，老人沒法幫忙帶孩子，我自己每天忙忙碌碌的，覺得為家為孩子付出了很多，有一

16、次跟好友聊天，抱怨自己為孩子付出太多，好友一開始沒說什么，后來嚴肅的對我說：我每次聽你說孩子，總是說付出，你為什么不能把這種付出看成是享受呢，每天陪著孩子、看著孩子一天天長大，這難道不是一種享受嗎？教育孩子、培養孩子ectificationand strengtheningthemanageme ntofdailye ducation,the spiritofreformshortofthecomplete system,paycloseattentiontosystem implementation, rea lly makethe partyorganizationand partymem

17、bereducati on a nd stri ctmanagement , solid. Fi nally,t he urge workonthe lead, be sure to promoteefficie ncy. Two educati on, notoneducationeducational,notw orkingwit hthe Centretwo, must stickaround theCente r,servi ng theoverall situation, coor dinate,tr uly result -orie ntedand pr omoteefficien

18、cy. Curre ntand future aperiod, to tightlyaround coordination advance fourafull strategylayout,winningfull built societythi s ace ntraland work overall,put carried out learning educati ona spromote dwork of importantopportunities and powerful powe r,gui deGeneralmembers cadres insi sted deve lopme n

19、t first priority,activeadapted economi cdevel opme nt new normal, consci ously practi ce linefive big devel opme ntconce pt,effectivegrasp supplysidestructural reform,toguarantees a nd im proved livel ihood,construction morehigh ecologi calvitalityha ppi ness ofcity. Lastyear,w e carryout three-thre

20、e activities a s a three-t hree speciale ducation importa nt,finde ducati ona nd effective platform to facilitate thecombination ofwork.Referencet hisagood practices,pr ovincial, andm unicipal de cided in twolear n adolearning e ducationinthe carrie d out five check fivepromoting, theCounty District

21、unitst o insi sted put twolearnadolearni ng educati ona nd fiveche ckfive promoti ng organi cfusion,a nd common a dvance,doone pla n layout , and one organizationimplementation,put carried out two lear na do situation, andfivecheck five promoti ng situation as party w orkevaluati on ofimportantConte

22、nt, asan important aspect ofmutual eval uation on partymembers,testi ngasan important basisforlea ding bodie sand leadi ng cadresperformance andguidethe broad massesof party members and cadre stostudy educati on ope ns up tothemain economi cand social development.Atpresent,the overallsmoothe conomic

23、 operati onin our city, butdownwar d pressure i s stillhig h,faceda numberofchallenge sand tests.Mea nwhile,coincide s witht hecity,Countya ndtow nshippartycommittees thisyeargeneralele ction year, howto re allychoose l oyal,cl eana nd serve sas agood cadre, ir on disci pline ofGeneralFe ng Qi ng Qi

24、 ,Qi, QiShun, swapped outPowerfulgoodsituation,is arealtestforallofus.Generalwork ontwo to st udythe effectofe ducati on inspecti on,ifthetr ueseriesofparty rule s and Constituti onspeaksw ella nd truly become aqualifiedparty member, nat urallyweca n dealwit hadva ncea nd retreatleft turn treatment,

25、proper organi zationalarrangements and sele ction, propertreatmentofpersonal interests.oput carried out two learna dolear ning e ducati onw ith dor eformdevelopmentstablet he work combi ned up,a nd seriouslydoCe nterwork,a nd daily andjob combine dup, andguarante es im prove這是我們做父母的責任，怎么能一味的認為是在付出能？

26、好友的話讓我一下子有了一種醍醐灌頂的感覺，是呀，每天有孩子相伴的日子不就是一種享受嗎？從此以后，我就轉變了觀念，再跟孩子在一起時，我就不再抱怨，對孩子也有耐心了， 孩子的表現也越來越好了，抱怨少了，娘倆關系密切了，家里歡笑多了，家庭也更和諧了。所以，我們不要把教育孩子看成是一種額為的負擔，而要看成是一種享受，享受跟孩子共同成長的過程。現在孩子已經五年級了，再過7 年就上大學了，其實我們跟孩子真正在一起的時間也就這幾年，一旦上了大學，孩子跟我們的交流溝通的機會就少多了。而且有資料表示，孩子在12 歲以前是習慣的養成期，一旦過了這個年齡許多習慣就很難形成或改正了。我們這些學生的家長分布在社會的各行

27、各業，雖然每個人的工作性質不同，忙碌程度不同，掙錢多少不同，但我們每個人都有一個共同的愿望，那就是希望自己的孩子成人、成材！我常聽許多做父母的說，自己工作忙，沒時間管孩子的教育，我覺得這種做法不大妥當。曾經看過一句話，一直讓我記憶猶新：一個人無論你的事業多么成功，一旦教育孩子失敗，你立刻會覺得一事無成。所以，不管自己從事的工作多么重要，不論你多忙，一定要抽時間關心孩子、盡可能地多陪陪孩子，并一定把這個過程看成是一種享受，而不是被動的去做這些事情。因此我想和那些工作太忙的家長共勉，不論你忙的是什么，是忙于干大事當大官也好，是忙于做生意發大財也好，無論多忙，無論多么喜歡玩兒，都一定要把孩子放到第一

28、位。畢竟，不論你多重要，地球離了你照樣轉；單位沒了你，很快就會有別人代替。但你的孩子離了你，就缺失了他的童年，他的天空，他的用以笑面人生、征服世界的所有自信和力量。打個比喻吧，孩子的一生就好像一個水桶一樣，如果水桶的上邊緣有了漏洞，那么灑出的水不會太多。但如果是水桶的底部有漏洞的話，即使你向里面裝入再多的水，這一整桶水最后還是會全部灑光。而兒童時期的教育就是我們給水桶底部打基礎的時候，等我們發現水桶漏水再去彌補的時候，就晚了。注重孩子心理健康方面的教育這也是我想跟大家共同探討的一個話題，前幾天看一個新聞，是北京一個初二的學生因為在學校被罰站跳樓了。看到這樣一個新聞心里挺不是個滋味，無論怎樣這樣

29、的悲劇發生在誰身上誰都受不了，我們大部分都是一個孩子，獨生子女的父母我們真的傷不起。所以，我們平時就要多關注孩子的心理變化，多跟孩子溝通交流，培養孩子積極樂觀的心態。這個新聞我專門讓孩子看了，并且告訴她，人的生命只有一次，是無限寶貴的，采取這種行為是自私的，孩子走了，留給親人的卻是無限的悲痛。我們不能等孩子出現心理問題了才想著去解決，而是在日常生活中善于梳理孩子的心里的問ectificationand strengtheningthemanageme ntofdailye ducation,the spiritofreformshortofthecomplete system,payclose

30、attentiontosystem implementation, rea lly makethe partyorganizationand partymembereducati on a nd stri ctmanagement , solid. Fi nally,t he urge workonthe lead, be sure to promoteefficie ncy. Two educati on, notoneducationeducational,notw orkingwit hthe Centretwo, must stickaround theCente r,servi ng

31、 theoverall situation, coor dinate,tr uly result -orie ntedand pr omoteefficiency. Curre ntand future aperiod, to tightlyaround coordination advance fourafull strategylayout,winningfull built societythi s ace ntraland work overall,put carried out learning educati ona spromote dwork of importantoppor

32、tunities and powerful powe r,gui deGeneralmembers cadres insi sted deve lopme nt first priority,activeadapted economi cdevel opme nt new normal, consci ously practi ce linefive big devel opme ntconce pt,effectivegrasp supplysidestructural reform,toguarantees a nd im proved livel ihood,construction m

33、orehigh ecologi calvitalityha ppi ness ofcity. Lastyear,w e carryout three-three activities a s a three-t hree speciale ducation importa nt,finde ducati ona nd effective platform to facilitate thecombination ofwork.Referencet hisagood practices,pr ovincial, andm unicipal de cided in twolear n adolea

34、rning e ducationinthe carrie d out five check fivepromoting, theCounty Districtunitst o insi sted put twolearnadolearni ng educati ona nd fiveche ckfive promoti ng organi cfusion,a nd common a dvance,doone pla n layout , and one organizationimplementation,put carried out two lear na do situation, an

35、dfivecheck five promoti ng situation as party w orkevaluati on ofimportantContent, asan important aspect ofmutual eval uation on partymembers,testi ngasan important basisforlea ding bodie sand leadi ng cadresperformance andguidethe broad massesof party members and cadre stostudy educati on ope ns up

36、 tothemain economi cand social development.Atpresent,the overallsmoothe conomic operati onin our city, butdownwar d pressure i s stillhig h,faceda numberofchallenge sand tests.Mea nwhile,coincide s witht hecity,Countya ndtow nshippartycommittees thisyeargeneralele ction year, howto re allychoose l o

37、yal,cl eana nd serve sas agood cadre, ir on disci pline ofGeneralFe ng Qi ng Qi ,Qi, QiShun, swapped outPowerfulgoodsituation,is arealtestforallofus.Generalwork ontwo to st udythe effectofe ducati on inspecti on,ifthetr ueseriesofparty rule s and Constituti onspeaksw ella nd truly become aqualifiedp

38、arty member, nat urallyweca n dealwit hadva ncea nd retreatleft turn treatment,proper organi zationalarrangements and sele ction, propertreatmentofpersonal interests.oput carried out two learna dolear ning e ducati onw ith dor eformdevelopmentstablet he work combi ned up,a nd seriouslydoCe nterwork,

39、a nd daily andjob combine dup, andguarante es im provelivelihood,a nd promote social harmonycombine dup,andcompletedt hetask combine 6題，要真正跟孩子交朋友，讓孩子敞開心扉把內心所有的想法都告訴你。各位家長，我最后想說的是：每個孩子都是天使，我們 要有善于發現的眼睛，善于發現孩子身上的閃光點。衷心希 望我們的每一個孩子都在家長欣賞的目光下健康快樂成長。祝我們在坐的每一個家庭都美滿幸福！謝謝大家！ectificationand strengtheningthema

40、nageme ntofdailye ducation,the spiritofreformshortofthecomplete system,paycloseattentiontosystem implementation, readucati on a nd stri ctmanagementd, be sure to promoteefficie ncy. Two educati on, notoneducationeducational,notw orkingwit hthe Centretwo, must stickaround theCente r,servi ng theovera

41、ll situation, coor dinate,tr uly result -orie ntedand pr omoteefficiency. Curre ntand future aperi od, to tightlyaround coorditoguarantees a nd im proved livel ihood,construction morehigh ecologi calvitalityha ppi ness ofcity. Lastyear,w e carryout three-three activities a s a three-t hree speciale ducation importa nt,finde ducatimain economi cand social development.Atpresent,the overallsmoothe conomic operati onin our city, butdownwar d pressure i s stillhig h,faceda numberofchallenge sand tests.Mea nwhile,coincide s witht hecity,Countya ndtow nshippartycommittees