1、愛(ài)情可以排除萬(wàn)難，排除之后，又有萬(wàn)難。 張小嫻“Men always want to be a womans first love - women like to be a mans last romance.” Oscar Wilde 第1頁(yè)/共17頁(yè)What is the love? Different people in different times have different definitions to love. Nowadays, people defined it as :based on certain material conditions and the common

2、 ideal of life, two people in their heart form the most sincere admiration for each other, and eager to become hisher lifelong partner .It is the strongest, most stable and specific feelings.第2頁(yè)/共17頁(yè)The essence of love“L”Loyal（忠誠(chéng)） Be loyal to your lover, which is essential for the true love. Without

3、 loyalty，love would not exist. “O”O(jiān)bservant（用心） It is the bridge of love, which can lead one to the depths of the soul of another. To understand love by your heart, it can make love more solid.忠于你的另一半，這是真正的愛(ài)情必不可少的，沒(méi)有忠誠(chéng)也不會(huì)有愛(ài)情.用心是愛(ài)情的橋梁，通過(guò)它能到達(dá)彼此心靈的深處。用心去理解愛(ài)情，才會(huì)讓愛(ài)情更加的牢固.第3頁(yè)/共17頁(yè)“V” Valued（尊重） When you h

4、ave dispute in something ,you can not impose your own will on heshe.You should respecte hisher opinion or choice.“E” Excuse（寬容） There is no perfect man in this world ，and no one will never make mistakes, forgiving hisher shortcomings and mistakes, which can make love more longer. 當(dāng)你們有分歧時(shí),你不能把自己的意志強(qiáng)加

5、于他她,而應(yīng)尊重他她的觀點(diǎn),尊重他她的選擇.世界上沒(méi)有完美的人，也沒(méi)有人永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)犯錯(cuò)，原諒他她的缺點(diǎn)和錯(cuò)誤，可以讓愛(ài)情更持久.第4頁(yè)/共17頁(yè) 第5頁(yè)/共17頁(yè) The essence of marriage Love each other( 相愛(ài))This is the most important in a marriage. And it should include loyalty、responsibility and understanding. Live together (共同生活）This is the purpose of marriage. It include the c

6、ombination of the spirit ,the body and the household. Have baby（延續(xù)自己的生命）Having children is a natural development of marriage , and to reject it may lead to cracks to marriage.第6頁(yè)/共17頁(yè)Three questions about marriage:QQ1What do you think the romantic and realistic? QQWhat do you think marry stand for ?

7、Whats your view about marry?第7頁(yè)/共17頁(yè)What do you think the romantic and realistic? Young people tend to think that real life as dramatic（激動(dòng)人心） and fascinating（迷人的） as it is in the novels and movies, while more experienced adults disregard this opinion. Adults think this kind of naive（天真的） daydream wi

8、ll only be destroyed by later experiences and every one should learn to get used to tedious（適應(yīng)） everyday life.第8頁(yè)/共17頁(yè)Whats your view about marriage? Many couples live a happy life because their marriage is based on true love .On the contrary, some people marry for money only, and their marriage is

9、destine to be a failure. Marriage based on true love lasts and cannot be easily split up whereas marriage without love does not endure(持續(xù)） and may end in divorce.第9頁(yè)/共17頁(yè)What do you think marry stand for ?1. Marriage stands for some responsibilities. If you get married withsomebody, you should be ho

10、nest to him or her, and not do anything that is not faithful to your love.第10頁(yè)/共17頁(yè)2. Love is marriages mother, but there are always some poor orphans（單親）.People marry for different reasons and not only for love. Maybe theymarry for money, for promotion, for repayment, for parents or someothers orde

11、rs, and even just for sex. 第11頁(yè)/共17頁(yè)The relationship between love and marriageSome think marriage is the tomb of love. The others think love is a prelude to marriage, marriage is the ultimate goal of loveI think love is the final goal that marriage, if your love is not to marry, its not represent th

12、at your love finally results well, I think most of people are married with the intention of it, so I think that love is the process, of course, the purpose of marriage is another new starting point. 第12頁(yè)/共17頁(yè)Whats your choice the one you love or the one love you?第13頁(yè)/共17頁(yè)I know it is difficult to choose. Everyone has his own idea about the choice. But I hope everyon