新發展英語3Unit5FriendshipUnderstandtheimportanceoffriendshipinourlife.0102030405Learnusefulwordsandexpressionsrelatedtofriendship.Learntousethestructures:given,…comelastonthelistofpriorities,thereisabigdifferencebetween…and…,etc.

Learntodevelopparagraphsbyde?nition.Readfurtheraboutthesigni?cantrolefriendshipplaysinourdailylife.StudyFocusIntensiveReading01A.Discussthefollowingquestionswithyourpartners.Pre-readingPreparationWhatdoyouthinkaretheessentialqualitiesthatmakeoneaconstantfriend?

Doesyourunderstandingoffriendshipchangewhentimegoesby?Citeexamplestosupportyourview.01010102B.Readthefollowingsentencescarefullyandworkoutthemeaningofeachunderlinedwordsandexpressions.Pre-readingPreparation1Weshouldprotectourenvironmentandsavetheearthtosustainouroveralldevelopment.2Theproblemsrequiringimmediatesolutionwillbegivenpriorityatthemeeting.3Mistakesarecrucialtosuccess-ifwetakethetimetoanalyzethemandlearnfromthem.01B.Readthefollowingsentencescarefullyandworkoutthemeaningofeachunderlinedwordsandexpressions.Pre-readingPreparation4Tangibleassetsofabusinessarethosethatyoucansee,feel,ortouch,suchastheland,factoriesandmachinery.5Don'ttakeonmoreresponsibilitiesthanyoucanhandle.6Pleasedon'tletgooftherope.Holdittight.01ToBeaBetterFriend如何成為一名更好的朋友Text

在孩提時代，我們和朋友呆在一起的時間不計其數：馬拉松式的電話交談以及整夜在一起學習和嬉笑。即使在交了男朋友之后，我們最好的朋友的位置還是不可替代。正是這在一起的時間培養了我們之間的友誼。現在我們都是成年人了，時間似乎總是不夠用。丈夫、孩子、事業和業余愛好都要投入精力，因而很多時候騰出時間會朋友的事就被擱置到了一邊。然而，頗有諷刺意味的是，在我們的成年時代，我們同樣需要朋友。一個友誼網對于我們成年人的幸福是至關重要的，我們必須努力去建立和保持這個網絡。以下是達到這一目標的幾個重要方法：ToBeaBetterFriend如何成為一名更好的朋友Backwhenwewerekids,thehoursspentwithfriendsweretoonumeroustocount.Thereweremarathontelephoneconversations,all-nightstudyingandgigglingsessions.Evenafterboyfriendsenteredthepicture,ourbestfriendsremainedirreplaceable.Andtimewasthemeansbywhichwenurturedthosefriendships.Nowasadultwomenweneverseemtohaveenoughtimeforanything.Husbands,kids,careersandavocation-allrequireattention;toooften,makingtimeforourfriendscomeslastonthelistofpriorities.Andyet,ironically,weneedourfriendsasmuchaseverinadulthood.Afriendshipnetworkisabsolutelycrucialforourwellbeingasadults.Wehavetodothehardworkofbuildingandsustainingthenetwork.Herearesomeimportantwaysforaccomplishingthis.1Text

放棄不重要的友情。許多友誼本來就不會持續一生。有些友誼隨時間而消失，這是情理之中的事。此外，現在每個人的社交生活都那么繁忙，所以，要放棄那些你并不想真正接近的人，利用更多的時間去培養那些最可能持久的友情。ToBeaBetterFriend如何成為一名更好的朋友Letgoofyourlesscentralfriendships.Manyofourfriendshipsarenevermeanttolastalifetime.It'snaturalthatsomefriendshipshavetimelimits.Furthermore,noweveryonehasabusysocialcalendar,sopullbackfromsomepeoplethatyoudon'treallywanttodrawclosetoandgivethemostpromisingfriendshipafairchancetogrow2Text

急朋友之所急。也許，當你剛坐下想和丈夫享受一頓浪漫的晚餐時，朋友卻突然打來電話，她正為某個問題沮喪不已。在某些情況下，朋友之需顯得尤為重要，而這只是其中的一個例子。有時，我們雖然想伸出援助之手，但卻因為有事無法分身或別的原因，無法助朋友一臂之力。如果你當時不能給朋友以幫助，那么不妨對他/她說：“我真希望能陪陪你——我聽得出來你很痛苦。我明天給你打電話行嗎？"一定要讓你的朋友意識到你對他/她的關心。ToBeaBetterFriend如何成為一名更好的朋友Bewillingto"dropeverything"whenyou'retrulyneeded.Youmaygetacallfromafriendwhoisreallydepressedoveracertainproblemwhenyouarejustsittingdowntoenjoyaromanticdinnerwithyourhusband.Thisisjustoneofthoseinstanceswhenafriend'sneedsmattermore.Sometimes,becauseofourunbreakablecommitmentsorothercircumstances,wesimplycan'tgiveaneedyfriendthetimewe'dlike.Ifyoucan'tbethereatthatmoment,saysomethinglike,"IwishIcouldbewithyou-Icanhearthatyou'reinpain.MayIcallyoutomorrow?"Besureyourfriendknowshe/sheiscaredabout.3Text

多發信件。幾乎每個人都有遠在異地讓我們非常思念的朋友。由于抽不出時間去走動，電話費又那么貴，寫信是一種保持聯系的好方法。這種方式讓寫信人和收信人都感到高興。另外，信件、卡片和明信片看得見摸得著，朋友可以將其保存起來，以后還可以多次閱讀。ToBeaBetterFriend如何成為一名更好的朋友Takeadvantageofthemails.Nearlyallofushavepals

livingfaraway-friendswemissverymuch.Giventhelimitedtimeavailableforvisitsandthehighpriceofphonecalls,writingisafinewaytokeepintouch-andmakesbothsenderandreceiverfeelgood.Besides,letters,cardsandpostcardshavethevirtueofbeingtangible--friendscankeepthemandreadthemforyearstocome.4Text

不要過分卷入朋友的問題。分擔朋友的痛苦是表現友情的一種方式。但是承擔朋友的痛苦并不能消除其痛苦。同情或理解朋友的痛苦與過分認同有很大區別，過分認同會使對方感到自己更脆弱。記住，處于逆境中的人只是需要朋友幫助他們保持理智、冷靜的頭腦。ToBeaBetterFriend如何成為一名更好的朋友Don'tmakeyourfriends'problemsyourown.Sharingyourfriend'sgriefisthewayyoushowdeepfriendship.Buttakingonyourfriend'spaindoesn'tmakethatpaingoaway.There''sabigdifferencebetweenempathyorrecognizingafriend'spain,andover-identification,whichmakesthesuffererfeelevenweaker.Remembertroubledpeoplejustneedtheirfriendstostaygroundedintheirownfeelings.5Text

切勿低估忠誠的價值。忠誠一直被看作是朋友間最珍貴的品質之一。名副其實的忠誠是相當微妙的。有人認為忠誠意味著不管你做什么，你的朋友總是站在你這一邊。但真正的忠誠指的是接受其人，而不一定贊同其所有的行為。ToBeaBetterFriend如何成為一名更好的朋友Neverunderestimatethevalueofloyalty.Loyaltyhasbeenratedasoneofthemostdesiredqualitiesinfriends.Trueloyaltycanbeafairlysubtlething.Somepeoplefeelitmeansthat,nomatterwhat,yourfriendwillalwaystakeyourside.Butrealloyaltyisacceptingtheperson,notnecessarilythecertainactionsyourfriendmighttake.6Text

維持友誼的最后一點，也是同樣重要的一點，就是在通完電話或拜訪結束時說一句，或在生日卡上寫一句：“我想你，愛你！"這簡單的話語會在你們分開的日子里維系你們的友誼。ToBeaBetterFriend如何成為一名更好的朋友Thelastbutnottheleastthingtokeepafriendshipaliveistosaytoyourfriends"Imissyouandloveyou."Sayingthatattheendofaphoneconversation,oravisit,orwritingitonabirthdaycard,cansustainyourfriendshipforthetimesyouaren'ttogether.7LanguagePointsoftheText1.Backwhenwewerekids,thehoursspentwithfriendsweretoonumeroustocount.(Para.1)…toonumeroustocount:此處動詞不定式

tocount采用了主動式。在"形容詞+不定式"這一結構中，句子主語與不定式動詞常構成邏輯上的動賓關系，這時不定式動詞一般不用被動式。如：a.Thequestionisverydifficulttoanswer.b.Biographiesareofteninterestingtoread.c.Thefurniturewillbeheavytomove.比較下面兩句：

a.Thereportiseasytowrite.b.Thereportisallreadytobetyped.前句著眼于不定式的動作，easy是針對towritethereport而言，因此也可作Itiseasytowritethereport；后句重點則在主語本身，ready針對的是thereport。LanguagePointsoftheText2.Thereweremarathontelephoneconversations,all-nightstudyingandgigglingsessions.(Para.1)1)這是一個clarifyingsentence，用生動、典型的例子（marathontelephoneconversations,all-nightstudyingandgigglingsessions）來具體說明前一句中"thehoursspentwithfriendsweretoonumeroustocount"。2)all-night:adj.lastingthroughoutthenight"通宵的；徹夜的"Thisshopgivesall-nightservice.這家商店通宵營業。LanguagePointsoftheText2.Thereweremarathontelephoneconversations,all-nightstudyingandgigglingsessions.(Para.1)3)session:n.ameetingoraparticularperiodoftimeusedesp.byagroupforaparticularpurpose"會期；（一群人在一起做某事的）一段時間"aquestion-and-answersession

一次問答課；adrinkingsession

一次酒會LanguagePointsoftheText3.

Evenafterboyfriendsenteredthepicture,ourbestfriendsremainedirreplaceable.(Para.1)本句中

enterthepicture意為getinvolvedinourlife;becomepartofourlife。

thepicture:thesituationinaparticularplaceorwithregardtoaparticularthingorgroup,"（某處或與某事、某人相關的）局面；情境"a.Thepresentpoliticalpicturegivesmuchcauseforanxiety.

目前的政治局面很令人擔憂。LanguagePointsoftheText3.

Evenafterboyfriendsenteredthepicture,ourbestfriendsremainedirreplaceable.(Para.1)b.Youprobablywouldbeabletounderstandallthisifyouwereinthepicture.

你若身處其中，也許就能理解這一切了。

c."IsPamstillwithEric?""帕姆還和埃里克在一起嗎？""No,he'soutofthepicture.""不，他已經退出了。"LanguagePointsoftheText4.Andtimewasthemeansbywhichwenurturedthosefriendships.(Para.1)

本句中

bywhichwenurtured…是一個由前置的介詞by+關系代詞which引出的定語從句，修飾先行詞means。在由介詞賓語+關系代詞引出的定語從句中，介詞的選擇往往要根據習慣搭配或句意而定。比較以下幾組句子中的不同介詞搭配：1)JamesRussellisamanforwhomIhavethegreatestrespect.JamesRussellisamanuponwhomyoucandepend.LanguagePointsoftheText4.Andtimewasthemeansbywhichwenurturedthosefriendships.(Para.1)

本句中

bywhichwenurtured…是一個由前置的介詞by+關系代詞which引出的定語從句，修飾先行詞means。在由介詞賓語+關系代詞引出的定語從句中，介詞的選擇往往要根據習慣搭配或句意而定。比較以下幾組句子中的不同介詞搭配：2)Inanelectriclampthereshouldnotbeanyoxygeninwhichthewiresmayburnaway.Thecolorlessgasiscalledoxygenwithwhichwecansavethepatient.3)Whoisthegirlwithwhomyoujustshookhands?Whoisthegirltowhomyoujustnodded?LanguagePointsoftheText5.Husbands,kids,careersandavocation—allrequireattention;toooften,makingtimeforourfriendscomeslastonthelistofpriorities.(Para.1)1)toooften:(也作alltoooften;onlytoooften)veryoften"經常"Toooftenwefindthatchildrenwithbehavioralproblemscomefrombrokenfamilies.

我們常會發現有行為問題的孩子出自破碎的家庭。2)maketime:tofindtime"擠時間（做某事）"Youshouldtryandmaketimetoseeadoctor.

你應該盡量抽出時間去看醫生。LanguagePointsoftheText5.Husbands,kids,careersandavocation—allrequireattention;toooften,makingtimeforourfriendscomeslastonthelistofpriorities.(Para.1)3)

comelast/firstonthelistofpriorities:tobeofslightest/greatestimportance"是最不重要/最重要的"Rebuildingtheareacomesfirstonthelistofpriorities.重建這一地區是當務之急。LanguagePointsoftheText6.Letgoofyourlesscentralfriendships.(Para.2)1)letgo(of):tostopholding"放手，放開，釋放"a.AssoonasIletgooftheleash,thedogranaway.

我一松開皮帶，狗就跑掉了。b.Don'tletgo(of)thehandle.Holdittight.

別放開把手，抓緊它。

c.Nouseworryingaboutit;letitgo.

無須為這事煩惱，隨它去吧。LanguagePointsoftheText6.Letgoofyourlesscentralfriendships.(Para.2)2)lesscentralfriendships:lessimportantfriendships"不（那么）重要的朋友關系"。又如：

Reducinginflationiscentraltothegovernment'seconomicpolicy.縮減通貨膨脹是政府經濟政策的重點。LanguagePointsoftheText7.Manyofourfriendshipsarenevermeanttolastalifetime.(Para.2)…arenevermeanttolast…:areneversupposedtolast…"本來就（注定）不會持續……"在不同的上下文里，bemeantto

可以有不同的含義。比較下面的句子：

a.Youaremeanttotakeyourshoesoffwhenenteringthisroom.(=aresupposedtotakeoff…)b.Thisdiagramismeanttoshowthedifferentstagesoftheprocess.(=isintendedtoshow…)c.Shewasnevermeanttobeateacher.(=wasnotatallsuitabletobe…)LanguagePointsoftheText8.

Bewillingto"dropeverything"whenyou'retrulyneeded.(Para.3)drop:toceaseconsideringordoing(sth.);togiveup"停止考慮或做（某事）；放棄"a.Whenthefirealarmrang,Idroppedeverythingandranoutofthebuilding.

當火警鈴響起時，我扔下手里的活，馬上跑出大樓。

b.Let'sdropthesubject.

咱們別再談這個話題了。LanguagePointsoftheText9.

Thisisjustoneofthoseinstanceswhenafriend'sneedsmattermore.(Para.3)matter(to):tobeimportant(to)"（對……）關系重大；要緊"a.Doesitmatterifweareabitlate?

我們遲到一點有關系嗎？

b.Itdoesn'tmattertomewhatyoudo.

你做什么我都無所謂。LanguagePointsoftheText10.Sometimes,becauseofourunbreakablecommitmentsorothercircumstances,wesimplycan'tgiveaneedyfriendthetimewe'dlike.(Para.3)1)unbreakablecommitments:"不可違背的義務或承諾"形容詞unbreakable由動詞break派生而來。見break以下搭配用法及含義：breakthelaw/rules/promise犯法/違章/食言a.Hehasbrokenhisword.

他沒遵守諾言。

b.Shehadtobreakanappointmentwiththelawyertotakehersontohospital.她要送兒子上醫院，所以只得取消和律師的會面。LanguagePointsoftheText10.Sometimes,becauseofourunbreakablecommitmentsorothercircumstances,wesimplycan'tgiveaneedyfriendthetimewe'dlike.(Para.3)2)circumstance:n.theconditionsthataffectasituation,action,event,etc."（常用復數）情況；條件；情形；境況"a.Therearecomplicatedcircumstancesbehindthematter.

這件事情背后情況復雜。b.Innocircumstancesshouldasoldierleavehispost.

士兵在任何情況下都不能擅自離崗。

c.Undersomecircumstancesdefeatishonorable.

在某些情形下，失敗是光榮的。LanguagePointsoftheText11.

Takeadvantageofthemails.(Para.4)takeadvantageof:tomakeuseof"利用（某事物）"Hetookadvantageofthegoodweathertopainttheshed.他趁天氣好給棚屋刷油漆。比較：

a.Shetookadvantageofmykindness.

她利用了我的好心。b.Don'tlendthemthecar—they'retakingadvantageofyou!

別把車借給他們——他們在占你便宜。LanguagePointsoftheText12.

Giventhelimitedtimeavailableforvisitsandthehighpriceofphonecalls,writingisafnewaytokeepintouch—andmakesbothsenderandreceiverfeelgood.(Para.4)given:prep.considering;inviewof"如果考慮到；鑒于"Giventheirinexperience/Giventhatthey'reinexperienced,they'vedoneagoodjob.考慮到他們缺乏經驗，這工作他們做得算是不錯了。LanguagePointsoftheText13.

Besides,letters,cardsandpostcardshavethevirtueofbeingtangible—friendscankeepthemandreadthemforyearstocome.(Para.4)1)havethevirtueof:tohavetheadvantageof"具有……的優勢/優點"Freetradehasthevirtueofflexibility.

自由貿易具有靈活性的優點。2)years/weeks/days,etc.tocome:(remainorcontinue)inthefuture"在未來，將來"a.Theeffectsofthedraughtwillbeleftforyearstocome.

旱災造成的后果在未來幾年里都會有影響。b.Nuclearwastewillremainhazardousforgenerationstocome.

核廢料對未來幾代人來說都會很危險。LanguagePointsoftheText14.

Buttakingonyourfriend'spaindoesn'tmakethatpaingoaway.(Para.5)takeon:

toacceptorundertake(responsibility,work,etc.)"承擔（責任、工作等）"a.Shehastakenontoomanyresponsibilities.

她承擔了太多的責任。

b.Youshouldnevertakeonmorethanyoucando.

永遠不要承擔超出自己能力范圍的任務。LanguagePointsoftheText15.

There'sabigdifferencebetweenempathyorrecognizingafriend'spain,andover-identifcation,whichmakesthesuffererfeelevenweaker.(Para.5)

連詞

or常用于給某事物另一種說法，意為"即；也就是"。本句中or后面的recognizingafriend'spain給出了empathy的確切含義，與empathy是同位關系。掌握

or的這一用法常有助于我們在閱讀中獲取理解生詞及術語的相關信息。又如：

Hestudiesgeology,orthescienceoftheearth'scrust.他學地質學，也就是研究地殼的科學。LanguagePointsoftheText16.

Remembertroubledpeoplejustneedtheirfriendstostaygroundedintheirownfeelings.(Para.5)grounded:

adj.(ofaperson)havingone'sfeetontheground;realistic,sensible,well-balanced"（指人）實事求是的；現實的，明智的，情緒穩定的"這一句可理解為：…troubledpeopleneedtheirfriendsjusttohelpthemremainpractical,reasonable,andcalm.比較：OurEnglishteachermadesurethatwewerewellgroundedinbasicgrammar.

我們的英語老師確保我們牢固掌握基礎語法。LanguagePointsoftheText17.Loyaltyhasbeenratedasoneofthemostdesiredqualitiesinfriends.(Para.6)1)rate(sb./sth.)as:

toregard(sb./sth.)as;toconsider"把……評價為；認為是"Sheishighlyratedasamodernpoet.她作為現代詩人受到很高的評價。2)desired:adj.wantedorwishedforasbeingusefulornecessary"想得到的；（被）期望的；應有的"Thesearethedesiredqualitiesinouremployees.這些是我們員工應有的素質。LanguagePointsoftheText18.

Somepeoplefeelitmeansthat,nomatterwhat,yourfriendwillalwaystakeyourside.(Para.6)takesb.'sside:(也作takesideswithsb.)tosupportsb.orhis/heropinion"支持某人或其觀點"I'lltakehisside,ofcourse.It'samatterofprinciple.我自然要站在他那一邊。這是原則問題。LanguagePointsoftheText19.

Butrealloyaltyisacceptingtheperson,notnecessarilythecertainactionsyourfriendmighttake.(Para.6)notnecessarily:possiblybutnotcertainly"不一定，未必"Expensiverestaurantsarenotnecessarilythebest.昂貴的餐館未必就是最好的。LanguagePointsoftheText20.

Thelastbutnottheleastthingtokeepafriendshipaliveistosaytoyourfriends"Imissyouandloveyou."(Para.7)

本句中

thelastbutnottheleastthing

套用了短語lastbutnotleast，意為lastbutnolessimportant(thanthosementionedearlier)"最后但同樣重要的（一點）"Lastbutnotleast,thereisthequestionofadequatefunding.最后一點但同樣重要的是，要有足夠的資金。NewWords

marathon

/?m?r?θ?n/adj.verylongorneedingmucheffortforalongtime馬拉松式的，持久的，需要很大耐力的giggle/?ɡ?ɡ?l/vi.1.tomakeshortburstofirrepressiblelaughter咯咯地笑；2.tolaughquietlyinasillychildishuncontrolledway傻笑irreplaceable/??r??ple?s?b?l/adj.toospecial,unusual,orvaluableforanythingelsetotakeitsplace(因特別或貴重而)不可替代的，獨一無二的avocation/??v??ke???n/n.

(formal)[正式]

1.

somethingdoneforpleasure

嗜好；2.

hobby

業余愛好NewWords

priority/pra???r?ti/n.somethinthatneedsattention,service,consideration,etc.beforeothers優先考慮的事crucial/?kru???l/adj.extremelyimportant,

pivotaloressential至關重要的，決定性的well-being/?wel?bi???/n.personalandphysicalcomfort,esp.goodhealthand

happiness舒適,健康,幸福sustain/s??ste?n/vt.1.tokeepinexistenceoveraperiod長期保持;2.

tomaintain使……持續NewWords

accomplish/??k?mpl??/vt.tosucceedindoing,tofinishsuccessfully,toachieve完成(任務等),做成功calendar/?k?l?nd?(r)/n.(AmE)[美](每個日期下有空白供安排要做之事的)(日歷)記事簿promising/?pr?m?s??/adj.(approving)showingsignsoflikelyfuturesuccess[褒]大有希望的，很有前途的commitment/k??m?tm?nt/n.aresponsibilityorpromisetofollowcertainbeliefsoracertaincourseofaction

承擔的義務,諾言,承諾(要做的事)NewWords

circumstance/?s??k?mstɑ?ns/n.(usu.pl.)afact,condition,oreventconcernedwithandinfluencinganotherevent,personorcourseofaction[一般用復數]情況，條件，情形，境況needy/?ni?di/adj.wanting,withoutfood,clothing,etc.貧窮的,貧困的pal/p?l/n.(informal)aclosefriendorbuddy[非正式]密友，

好友given/?ɡ?v?n/prep.considering,

inviewof

考慮到,鑒于NewWords

virtue/?v??t?u?/n.(an)advantageorpositiveandbeneficialattribute優

點，長處,好處,益處tangible/?t?nd??b?l/adj.(formal)thatcanbeperceivedbytouch[正式]可觸摸的,可觸知的,有形的empathy/?emp?θi/n.theabilitytoimagineandshareanotherperson'sfeeling,experience,etc.同情，同感over-identification/???v?(r)a?dent?f??ke???n/n.過分的(情感)認同NewWords

under-estimate/??nd??(r)est?me?t/vt.tohavetoolowanopinionof小看,輕視，(對……)評價過低loyalty/?l???lti/n.thequalityofremainingfaithfultoone'sfriends,principles,country,etc.忠誠,忠貞rate

/re?t/vt.1.toregard(somebody/something)as把(某人/某事物)看成是；2.toconsider認為subtle/?s?t?l/adj.(esp.approving)1.noteasytodetectordescribe[尤褒]難以察覺或描述的;2.fine細微的;3.delicate,sublime精細的

letgo(of)tostopholding

放手，放開，釋放pullbackfrom(somebody)不再與(某人)往來takeadvantageoftomakeuseof,

toprofitfrom

利用takeontoaccept(responsibility,etc.)承擔(責任等)Phrases&Expressions

takesomebody'ssidetoexpresssupportforsomebody(inadispute,etc.)站在某人一邊，支持某人Phrases&ExpressionsReadingComprehensionDecidewhetherthefollowingstatementsaretrue(T)orfalse(F).Thengobacktothetextforacheckofyourunderstanding.Youshouldtellwhichline(s)ofwhichparagraphsupport(s)you.Finally,workinpairstocorrectthosefalsestatements.ReadingComprehensionFactSearching1Whenwewereyoung,wespentmuchtimewithourfriendsduringwhichwenurturedourfriendship.TLine(s)______Para______._____________________________________________________.2Whenwebecomeadultwomen,makingtimeforourfriendscomeslastonthelistofprioritiesbecausewedon'tneedfriendshipanymoreaswedidinchildhood.FLine(s)______Para______._____________________________________________________.1-46-91Andyet,ironically,weneedourfriendsasmuchaseverinadulthood1ReadingComprehensionFactSearching3Oncewedevelopafriendshipwithsomeone,thefriendshipismeanttolastforalifetime.FLine(s)____Para______.______________________________________________________________________________________________________________4Thoughfriendshipisanindispensablepartofourlife,comparedwithourfamily,friendsshouldalwayscomesecondonthelistofpriorities.FLine(s)______Para______.__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________.1-221-43Manyofourfriendshipsarenevermeanttolastalifetime.It'snaturalYoumaygetacallfromafriendwhoisreallydepressedoverathatsomefriendshipshavetimelimits.certainproblemwhenyouarejustsittingdowntoenjoyaromanticdinnerwithyourhusband.Thisisjustoneofthoseinstanceswhenafriend'sneedsmattermore.ReadingComprehensionFactSearching5Becausewemustmakesurethatourfriendsknowtheyarecaredabout,wehavetotakeontheirpainallthetime.FLine(s)______Para______._______________________________________________________________.6Beingloyaltoourfriendsmeansthatweshouldagreewithwhateverourfrienddoes.FLine(s)______Para______.____________________________________________________________________________________________________________.2-354-56Takingonyourfriend'spaindoesn'tmakethatpaingoaway.Butrealloyaltyisacceptingtheperson,notnecessarilythecertainactionsyourfriendmighttake.Choosethebestoptiontofinishthefollowingexercises.ReadingComprehensionReadingAnalysis1Whatisthemainideaofthepassage?A.Howtomakefriends.B.Howtobeabetterfriend.C.Somesuggestionsforkeepingfriendships.D.BothBandC.Choosethebestoptiontofinishthefollowingexercises.ReadingComprehensionReadingAnalysis2Whydoesmakingtimeforourfriendsusuallycomelastonthelistofprioritieswhenwebecomeadultwomen?A.Aswebecomemoreindependentphysicallyandspiritually,wedon'tneedfriendshipsasbefore.B.Thoughfriendshipiscrucialaseverinadulthood,mostofusaretoobusytoaffordthetime.C.Aswebecomeadultwomen,wehavemoreimportantthingstotakecareof.D.Withtimepassingby,friendsgraduallydriftapart.Choosethebestoptiontofinishthefollowingexercises.ReadingComprehensionReadingAnalysis3Whichofthefollowingisthereasonfortheendofsomefriendshipsaccordingtotheauthor?A.Manyfriendshipsarenotmeanttolastalifetime.B.Somefriendshipshavetimelimits.C.Welosecontactwithsomefriendsbecausewearebusy.D.Alltheabove.Choosethebestoptiontofinishthefollowingexercises.ReadingComprehensionReadingAnalysis4Whatdoestheauthorsuggestusifwegetacallfromaneedyfriendwhileweareenjoyingadinnerwithourfamily?A.lgnorethefriend.B.Feelsorryfornotbeingabletohelp.C.Callthefriendafterthedinner.D.Dothebestwecantoofferthecomfortthefriendneeds.Choosethebestoptiontofinishthefollowingexercises.ReadingComprehensionReadingAnalysis5Whichofthefollowingisthemainreasonwhytheauthorsuggestsmailsforkeepingfriendships?A.Mailwritingtakeslittletime.B.Mailscostless.C.Mailscanbekeptforalongtimeandcanremindusofourfriends.D.Mailsaremoreformalthanvisitsandphonecalls.Choosethebestoptiontofinishthefollowingexercises.ReadingComprehensionReadingAnalysis6Accordingtotheauthor,whatwouldhappenifyoumakeyourfriends'problemsyourown?A.Yourfriendswillbegratefultoyouforyourhelp.B.Itrelievesyourfriends'pain.C.Itcanmakethesuffererfeelevenweaker.D.Ithelpssolveyourfriends'problem.1.Answerthefollowingquestionsbasedonthetextyouhaveread.ReadingComprehensionInformationRecallandSummary（1）Explaininyourownwordswhatgirlsusuallydotokeepfriendships.Inadolescence,girlsspentaconsiderableamountoftimewiththeirfriends:theysharedconfidencesoverthephone;theyoftenspentwholeeveningsstudyingtogether,talkingorlaughingaboutsomething.Evenaftertheystarteddatingsomeone,friendsremainedirreplaceable.

1.Answerthefollowingquestionsbasedonthetextyouhaveread.ReadingComprehensionInformationRecallandSummary（2）Whydoadultwomenfinditdifficulttokeepfriendshipsthoughtheyneedfriendsasmuchaseverinadulthood?Althoughadultwomenneedfriendsasever,asbusyadults,theyoftenfindithardtodevoteequalattentiontoeverything.Sincefamilyandcareertakeupmostoftheirtime,friendshipscomelastonthelistofpriorities.1.Answerthefollowingquestionsbasedonthetextyouhaveread.ReadingComprehensionInformationRecallandSummary（3）Whatdoestheauthormeanby"letgooflesscentralfriendships"?Whatdoyouthinkarecentralfriendships?By"letgooflesscentralfriendships",theauthoradvisesustogiveupthefriendshipsinwhichtherelationshipiscasualorlesscloseandwhicharethereforenotmeanttolastalifetime.Centralfriendships,incontrast,arethosethatweenjoywithsomeonethatwecantrust,dependon,confideinandexchangehelpwithespeciallyintimesofdifficulty.Thesearecentralfriendshipsthatwehopewilllastalifetime.1.Answerthefollowingquestionsbasedonthetextyouhaveread.ReadingComprehensionInformationRecallandSummary（4）"Trueloyaltycanbeafairlysubtlething."Whyistrueloyaltysubtle?Alotofpeoplehaveamisinterpretationofloyalty.Beingloyaltoyourfrienddoesnotmeanthatyouhavetoagreewithhimallthetime.Trueloyaltymeansthatyouaccepttheperson,althoughyoucandisagreewithhiminsomerespects.ReadingComprehension_________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________