#/6勵(lì)志英語美文閱讀Theresnorosewithoutathorn.Thisthoughtisabsolutelynecessarytoprepareyoutoexperiencelesspainandmorejoyinyourjourneyoflife.人生固然有歡樂，但也一定不乏痛苦。有了這種認(rèn)識(shí)和思想準(zhǔn)備也是非常必要的，因?yàn)檫@樣會(huì)使你的生活增加歡樂而減少痛苦。Withabirds-eyeview,youmayrealizesomethingmeaningful.Duringyourschoolyears,whilejoyfullyacquiringknowledgeyouarealsounderthepressureofhomework,examinations,andranking.Youfacecrisesandagony.Meanwhile,allsortsofintricateaffairsmayhappenbetweenyouandyourclassmates.Inyouryouth,pubertymayfillyouwithunrealizeddesiresandsendyouintodeeperperplexity.鳥瞰人生，可略有領(lǐng)悟。上學(xué)時(shí)，有獲得知識(shí)的樂趣，便有做功課、考試、排名次的危機(jī)與痛苦。同樣，也有同學(xué)間相處的融合與糾結(jié)。青年時(shí)，春心萌動(dòng)，幻想聯(lián)翩，難以實(shí)現(xiàn)，亦難免陷入困擾。Enteringmarriage,youareactuallyinthecenterofallthecontradictionsthematchingofdifferentpersonalities,enduringoffamilymembers,childrensschooling,financialmanagementandsoon,youmayalsofallintomarriagecrisis.Asyouage,yourhealthmaydeteriorateandvarioustroublesinyourcareerandfamilymaygraduallyemerge.Mid-lifeandold-agecrisiswillfollow,leadingyoutoyoureternity.結(jié)婚之后，實(shí)際進(jìn)入了更多的矛盾之中;思想的落差、相處的困難、子女的教育、財(cái)務(wù)的爭(zhēng)執(zhí)等等，也會(huì)陷入婚姻危機(jī)。隨后，年齡愈大，健康愈差，事業(yè)、家庭中的許多潛在矛盾會(huì)日益突出，因而又會(huì)有中年危機(jī)和老年危機(jī)，直至步入死亡。Wemaythereforeconcludethatmuchofourlifemaynotbespentincontentment.However,thethingsthatdiscontentare,infact,notuselesssinceyoumaylearnmorefromthemthanfromthethingsthatcheeredyouup.所以說，人生在世，如意的事不足一二，不如意的則十有八九。但這八九不是負(fù)擔(dān)，而是有用的，因?yàn)槿嗽谕纯嘀兴鶎W(xué)到的，要比在歡樂中所學(xué)到的多得多。：成功就在彼岸Everybodywantssuccess.Somepeopleaimforit;othersjusttalkaboutit.Weallknowwhatitlookslikewhensomeoneelsehasit.Oftentimesitjustseemslikesomethingtoofaroutofreach.每個(gè)人都渴望成功。有的人努力去爭(zhēng)取，有的人只是說說而已。我們都知道一個(gè)真正成功了的人是什么樣的，但很多時(shí)候那個(gè)樣子看起來是那么遙不可及。Thetruthtosuccessiscloserthanyouthink.Itsjustontheothersideyouhavetowantitenough,andbewillingenoughtogetit.實(shí)際上成功并沒有你想象的那么遙遠(yuǎn)。成功就在彼岸，只要你足夠期望、足夠想要實(shí)現(xiàn)它。Fearisyourbiggestobstaclefearoffailure,fearofthejudgmentofothers;fearofactuallysucceeding.Itwilltripyouupeverytime.Itwillcauseyoutomakedecisionsthatmayseemrightatthetime,buttheyrepreventingyoufromactuallygettingoverthatwall.恐懼是你最大的障礙：害怕失敗，害怕他人的評(píng)判，害怕真正的成功。這些障礙會(huì)經(jīng)常絆倒你，會(huì)讓你在看似正確的時(shí)候做出決定，但實(shí)際上他們卻阻礙了你真正翻越那道墻。Successhasnoexcuses.Youeithergetitoryoudont.Theminuteyoufindareasonnottotakeanothersteptowardssuccessisthemomentyoustopbeingsuccessful.Inthesymphonyofsuccess,excusesarejustnoise.成功沒有借口。要么真的實(shí)現(xiàn)，要么就是未能實(shí)現(xiàn)。當(dāng)你找到一個(gè)理由決定停止走向成功時(shí)，便是你停止成為成功之人的那一刻。在成功的交響樂中，借口只是噪音。Ontheothersideofobstacles成功在障礙的另一邊Everyonefaceschanges;differentonesatdifferenttimes.Weallhandlethesamechallengesdifferently;weallhavedifferentresults.Itshowyouhandleeachoneandwhatyoudowiththeresultsthatcount.Anobstacleissomethingyoueitherfindawayaroundorallowtostopyou.Remember,youvegottogetpassedobstaclesinordertosucceed.每個(gè)人都會(huì)面臨改變，只是不同的人會(huì)在不同的時(shí)間（面臨改變）。我們都需要迎接同樣的挑戰(zhàn)，但結(jié)果卻不盡相同。差別在于你是如何應(yīng)對(duì)每一個(gè)挑戰(zhàn)的，以及你如何應(yīng)對(duì)每一個(gè)挑戰(zhàn)的結(jié)果。你要么找到方法來解決它，要么停止不前，這是你通往成功的一大障礙。記住，你必須跨越障礙才能走向成功。Ontheothersideoffailures成功在失敗的另一邊Noteverythingworks;evenifitworksforotherpeople,thesamethingjustdoesntworkforus.SowhatFailurecaneitherbecomeanobstacleandanexcuseoritcanbecomeyourteacherinwhatnottodo.你并不是每件事都能成功;即使是同一件事，在別人身上或許成功了，但是在你身上卻不能。但那又怎么樣失敗要么成為你的阻礙或者借口，要么成為你的良師益友，告訴你什么該做什么不該做。Ittakeseffort,commitmentandfollow-through成功需要付出，需要承諾，需要堅(jiān)持到底地不停嘗試Theycallitaladderofsuccessforareasonbecauseyouneedtoclimbitinordertogetsomewhere.Itsnotanescalator.Youjustdontstandthereandletitdotheworkforyou.Youhavetodotheworkyourself.Sometimesitwillbeeasy;othertimesyoullbecarryingaheavyloadonyourshoulders.Theladderremainsthesame.Successstillwaitsontheotherside.Itsgoingtotakedeterminationandpersistenceonyourparttogetupandoverthatwal